You see someone hurting, or otherwise hoping for change. Let them know what is working for you with one of the following INVITATIONS! That’s nice!
“Would you like to do something about that?”
“Are you ready to do something about it?”
“How would it feel to….
( -have a healthy answer against pain,
-make choices without side effect,
-say yes without checking your checkbook,
-graduate with an extra paycheck already in place,
-feel supported to transition job or location,
-easily help aging parents and struggling friends,
-just get your cleaning products for free,
…..etc., etc. etc. )
“There’s a better way. (really, what?) Have you been looking for a better way?” 🙂